About My Last Post…
A lot of people posted to my last entry asking what was wrong, since I don’t normally make those single-line vague entries (there were also some insensitive fuckheads who I’d love to shoot, but that’s another story).
What happened that’s screwed me up so bad so fast? Dobie dumped me last night. Right when I thought we were doing pretty good, and when I thought I’d found my soulmate, he comes out of nowhere and says he thinks we should break up.
And what’s fucking me up the most is that he’s everything I’ve ever wanted in a mate, everything I’ve been searching for for years in one person, and I did nothing wrong (his words), yet it STILL didn’t work out! I think I’m doomed to be alone [bangs head on desk].
March 20th, 2005 at 18:51:18
*hugs tightly* I’m always here if you need a friend or someone to talk to hon. You’ll find someone, I have full confidence in you, you’re an awesome person and a real sweetheart.
March 20th, 2005 at 18:57:28
*hugs* I’m sorry that happened, pup.
March 20th, 2005 at 19:02:40
::hugs:: Oh hun! I’m so sorry >_< ::is speachless::
March 20th, 2005 at 19:03:23
I noticed you deleted or screened my response to your other entry. I’m sorry if I offended you somehow. I couldn’t think of anything comforting to say without risking your feelings even more. I knew it had to do with Dobie (on a hunch) and because of who I am I was scared I’d inadvertently rub it in.
The last thing I want is for you to feel lonely right now. So please don’t forget that I’m still here, as are all of your friends, and we’ve got plenty of shoulders to offer. *hugs*
I’d like to talk a little more on AIM or Y!M when you’re up to it.
March 20th, 2005 at 19:05:12
*holds you some* Don’t worry about it… even I have thought I found everything perfect and it doesn’t work. Maybe he has good reasons or so.
March 20th, 2005 at 19:05:52
*hugs*
I’m sorry to hear about that, I really thought that both you and Dobie were a great match, from what I see.
March 20th, 2005 at 19:09:12
I’m here if you need to vent dude
March 20th, 2005 at 19:12:32
That really does suck.
And I’m sorry, myself. I didn’t even get up to visit this weekend.
March 20th, 2005 at 19:39:59
I’m responding here because it’ll be screened and only you will see it…
But would you like for me to redo your commission or just put it on hold so it won’t be something that brings up painful memories? I don’t want to deliver bad tidings to you, and I’ve not made enough progress on it that I couldn’t stop and change it or start all over on something new if you’d like.
March 20th, 2005 at 21:07:15
*snugs and hides a ‘meep’* wow, didn’t see that one coming! man, I’m sorry…
well, I’m here for ya. if you ever need a shoulder to lean on, you know how to get a hold of me.
March 20th, 2005 at 22:28:26
Awwww… *hugs* Don’t dispair. The right person *will* come around in time.
I used to think that I’d never find anyone. And now, I’m getting married!
It does all work out in time.
Orca _)\_
March 20th, 2005 at 23:41:37
nah,you just ain’t found the right person yet,is all…
March 21st, 2005 at 0:51:23
… This does not Give Dobie a good track record with relationships. He did this very same thing to my very best childhood friend, fox_cub.
dobie has harmed more then one person, And for this, I can never support Dobie agean… I’m so sorry.. I should have went on my instinct and tried harder to hold you back from him… But I didnt, Because love is fickle, and cannot be changed. Love is not a feeling of logic, Id defies all logic.
If there is anything I can do for you, Let me know.
~Kupok
March 21st, 2005 at 1:13:08
I don’t know what to say. Like you said all seemed so great and so right. I wish I could be there for you to cry on. I can call if you like. *hugs tight*
March 21st, 2005 at 3:57:31
*hugs*
March 21st, 2005 at 5:11:30
I’m truly sorry for you, but maybe you should look somewhere else ? You are not that old, you can found somebody else. Don’t make of this a tragedia. Keep hope, cheer up.
March 21st, 2005 at 10:12:34
HUGS!!
I’m sorry to hear this Felix. As others have mentioned, I thought the two of you looked great together back at Cabin Fever.
Breaking up is difficult, especially when it’s out of the blue and the initiating party can’t adaquately express why.
As I told Dobe, you guys are young. The folks you’re dating are young. Add to that you’re furry and it makes long relationships and the committments involved that much more difficult. Don’t give up though…the right person is out there for ya. Keep trying.
*Hugs*
Swift Fox
March 21st, 2005 at 10:18:38
Believe me when I say that I totally sympathize *hugs* If you need someone to talk to let me know. I’ve been there (as you know) and it sucks. However, you are an awesome person and as hard as it may be to think that there’s someone else out there, I’m sure you will find them. It’s just a pain in the ass having to look after you think you’re set for life. In the meantime, enjoy all the rocking love sux music that’s out there. It helps. *more hugs*
March 21st, 2005 at 12:36:15
I’m so sorry.. if I was there, you’d be getting UBER-hugs of doom!!!!
I’m always here to talk if you need.
March 21st, 2005 at 14:10:02
He’s not everything that you want in a mate if he left you at this stage in your relationship.
Consider that if he had doubts that it was better he let you know early rather than later, after having a lot more invested in the relationship.
-Kryphos
March 21st, 2005 at 14:17:42
Maybe he’s afraid of hurting you.
March 22nd, 2005 at 1:11:14
*hugs* if I can do anything to help ya, let me know.
March 22nd, 2005 at 1:36:51
*hugs*
March 22nd, 2005 at 12:24:52
WACKA!!! *gives you belated hugs* I don’t know why my first ones didn’t go through. *hugs again*
March 22nd, 2005 at 22:05:39
you’ll find somone just keep looking *hugs* you’re too cool and sweet to stay single for long